Archive for May, 2005

what is falling in love

Sunday, May 8th, 2005

When u think of ur past love, u may view it as a
failure. But when u find a new love, u view the
past as a teacher.

In the game of love, it doesnt really matter who
won or who lost. What is important is u know
when to hold on and when to let go!

U know u really love someone when u want him or
her to be happy even if his or her happiness
means that u are not part of it.

Everything happens for the best.

If the person u love doesnt love u back, dont be
afraid to love someone else again, for u will never
know unless u give it a try. u will never love a
person u love unless u risk for love.

Love strikes in hurting. If u dont get hurt, u dont
learn how to love. Love doesnt hurt all the time.

Though the hurting is still there to test u, to help u
grow. Dont find love, let love find u. That is why it
is called falling in love because u dont force urself to
fall. u just fall.

U cannot finish a book without closing its
chapters.If u want to go on, then u have to leave
the past as u turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won
by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we
are always learning, discovering and growing.

The greatest irony of love is letting go when u
need to hold on and holding on when u need to let go.

We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more than we can love ourselves.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal and
then get back on the horse. But dont ever make
the same mistake of riding the same one that
threw u the first time.

To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying,
to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken
because the greatest hazard in life is risking
nothing!

To reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose ur feelings is to expose true self. To love
is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love; fall but not stumble, be
constant but not too persistent, share and never
be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but
never keep the pain.

Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can
carve wonderful images into the soul that always
last for a lifetime.

Love is supposed to be the most wonderful
feeling. It should inspire u and give u joy and strength. But
sometimes the things that give u joy can also hurt
you in the end.

Loving people means giving them the freedom that
they choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him or her the
freedom to find his or her way, whether it lead
towards u or away from u.

Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be
taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only
then u will experience the fullness of humanity and that
is love.

Only love can hurt ur heart, fill u with desire and
tear u apart. Only love can make u cry and only
love knows why.

If u are not ready to cry, if u are not ready to take
the risk, if u are not ready to feel the pain, then u
are not ready to fall in love.

There was a time in our lives when we became
afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we
get hurt, then I figured that is why it is called falling
in love.

Whatever happened, dont give up! It is just a trial.
Have faith in urself and cheer up. When u decide
to love, allow it to grow. When u promise to love,
refuse it to die!

Know more about SCORPIO!

Monday, May 2nd, 2005

Determined, aggressive and shrewd, you are rarely passive or neutral about anything. Ruled by Pluto you are someone that can put the fear even into a Leo. You are sexual, reproduction and survival seem important to you, moreso than the average person. But you have a natural charm that has many in awe. Deep, often quite secretive and reserved, you are at times jealous, resentful and even vengeful. Your recuperative powers are remarkable. You are a truth-seeker; you have keen judgment and penetrating insight, and these qualities enable you to exercise a great deal of authority over others. Science, medicine or any field of intrigue are right up your alley. Willpower and persistence are your strong points, and although you are somewhat reticent, when prodded you can become outspoken and direct.

You see life as a means of self-discovery through trial and error. You seek shared experiences at every opportunity, and you have an easy, charming, gracious and impersonal feeling for humanity. You have a deep need for everyone to like you and have a natural courtesy, charm and diplomatic manner; your emotional well-being depends upon approval of others, and so you are eager to please. You tend to live for the moment and you run the scale of highs and lows with every shift of events. You are friendly, easy-going and popular, but if you use this position negatively you can be capricious, fickle and critical. Because you easily succumb to flattery, you must consciously develop self-reliance and learn how to say no. You must curb your tendencies to indolence and flirtation. Your sense impressions are strong aesthetically; you feel a need to serve beauty. You experience the senses through the mind, and you evaluate the facts, but you do not criticize or analyze them. The Libra mind is more contemplative; you build great ideas, but you are not always ready to act on them. For you judgment is more important than execution. Decisiveness is not usually a strong quality with this placement, but your illusive sweetness hides a great strength. You have a fondness for music, poetry and the arts. Although you have some ability in these fields, you usually prefer to appreciate rather than perform. Affectionate and good-natured, you are often in demand in social circles. The people around you affect you, and your love life depends on how much you are appreciated. Partners are important to you since you work best in conjunction with others, and because you are dependent on their reactions.

Scorpio Character Traits

Monday, May 2nd, 2005

There are two symbols for Scorpio - the scorpion, with its legendary sting and the eagle, which soars aloft to great heights.

‘I DESIRE’ is the motto for Scorpio. You are intensely emotional and strongly aware of the darker side of human nature. You don’t live on the surface of life, but experience it at its deepest levels.

You possess an iron will, a strong ego and a unique personal magnetism. You make a loyal friend and a passionate lover.

You’re also intuitive, ambitious and have a penetrating mind. You have a burning need to uncover what is hidden, whether it’s a mystery or someone else’s innermost secrets. You’re rarely who you appear to be on the outside and are not easy to get to know.

You also have a tendency to brood and to bear grudges and can be suspicious and vindictive.

You are the investigators of the zodiac.